Here to Gay, Here to Stay




COLUMN: Bitch’s Brew first published Monday April 8, 2002 (Long before gay was en vogue)


ENOUGH CAN’T BE said about gayness. It’s high time people face the fact it’s part of our world.
     Next to race and religion, homosexuality is the most dumb-ass basis on which to despise another human being.
     People are so ignorant they actually think homosexuality is new. Earth to homophobes: It’s not! It’s been around so long there was a time when there wasn’t even a word for it.
     Men were men whichever way you looked at them; not separated into straight and gay. A man was not looked at as being less than a man because of where he put his pee-pee.
     Gay men and women, like straight women, like Blacks and native peoples, suffer under the same single entity: straight, sexist men – misogynistic, capitalistic, Aryan-supremacy kaka-splats.
     Any woman who attacks gayness is advocating the abuse of women and children. Any Black or coloured men who do it are supporting the white-supremacy movement. In the same vein, any gay men who uphold sexism thereby champion the very system that abhors them. Any gay women who refuse to accept that men can be sexually victimised, too, are siding with the overarching enemy that is sexism.
     I, for one, don’t see gay men as a threat or in competition for lovers, since:
  • There will always be men who want women.
  • Contrary to popular belief, gay men don’t want every man that moves. They’re a lot more picky than we gals, actually.
  • The straighter the man the less he seems to know how to deal with a woman like me; so that takes him out of the equation anyway, and I could care less who gets him.
The fact is, eventually there truly will be no gay men or women on this awesome Earth of ours. The way humanity is going we’ll all either be dead by middle of the next millennium, or we’ll all be brown (as in mixed-race) and bi-sexual.
Just something to think about.

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